{"id":1764,"date":"2017-01-17T12:02:15","date_gmt":"2017-01-17T20:02:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/?p=1764"},"modified":"2018-10-11T11:52:57","modified_gmt":"2018-10-11T19:52:57","slug":"ambiguity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/2017\/01\/17\/ambiguity\/","title":{"rendered":"Ambiguity"},"content":{"rendered":"

Life can get difficult at times when you try not to fit the box, and I’ve learned many things navigating the Kinsey scale.<\/p>\"dontworry\"<\/a><\/p><\/p>What I found is that, while everyone can find his\/her community in San Francisco, both community are definitely not inclusive. While in 2015, the US celebrated the Obergefell v Hodges civil rights case, there is still a long way to go to attain proper acceptance of the other party in both communities.<\/p>In the gay community, bisexuals are looked with a very strange light. They are not born this way<\/em>, and do not belong, because they “have to make up their mind.”<\/p>My first realization of this was a conversation with a friend a mine, who’s married, has a kid and a husband, but still attracted to women, and leads a bisexual group in Paris. The issue is that she doesn’t belong the lesbian community, that is she doesn’t want to live in a community that has its own codes and lifestyle.<\/p>A second realization was at the Frameline festival (2015), where I went to watch En la gama de los Grises<\/a>. It is a very beautiful movie about the inner conflicts of a bisexual who has to make choices: he either has to be gay in full, or come back to a straight life.
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