{"id":3344,"date":"2023-10-06T14:26:57","date_gmt":"2023-10-06T22:26:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/?p=3344"},"modified":"2023-10-21T17:16:35","modified_gmt":"2023-10-22T01:16:35","slug":"dr-and-drs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/2023\/10\/06\/dr-and-drs\/","title":{"rendered":"Dr. and Drs."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, my partner and I got married, and we both decided to take the same surname.<\/p>I will now be known as\u00a0<strong>Antoine\u00a0\u0130\u015flegen-Wojdyla<\/strong> \u2013 edit your contact info!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3349\" style=\"width: 442px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ricker.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3349\" class=\"wp-image-3349 \" src=\"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ricker-1024x679.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"432\" height=\"286\" srcset=\"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ricker-1024x679.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ricker-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ricker-768x509.jpg 768w, http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ricker.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 432px) 100vw, 432px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-3349\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Golden Gate Bridge (credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jake_ricker\/\" onclick=\"_gaq.push(['_trackEvent', 'outbound-article', 'https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jake_ricker\/', 'Jake Ricker']);\" >Jake Ricker<\/a>)<\/p>\n<\/div><p><!--more--><\/p>My partner was born in Turkey, so that makes my last name ever more difficult to spell \u2013 I promise there is no malice in this.<\/p>Over the last ten years, there&#8217;s been quite a change regarding name titles \u2013 Miss (and Melle in French) is an obvious remainder of a patriarchal society where a women&#8217;s marital status was anyone&#8217;s business. A clever workaround (before people started realizing how absurd this was) was for a woman to become a doctor \u2013 your title would be Dr. no matter what.<\/p>However, because my wife is a doctor like me, I wondered if it would make sense to use name title Dr. & Drs. \u0130\u015flegen-Wojdyla to distinguish us (in French Dr et Dme, for Docteur et Docte Dame.)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3345\" style=\"width: 274px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/oeuvre_turc-f25ba.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3345\" class=\"wp-image-3345 \" src=\"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/oeuvre_turc-f25ba.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"264\" height=\"195\" srcset=\"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/oeuvre_turc-f25ba.jpg 451w, http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/oeuvre_turc-f25ba-300x222.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 264px) 100vw, 264px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-3345\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">La demonstration de l&#8217;astronome Turc<\/p>\n<\/div><p>&nbsp;<\/p>But then I asked my wife what she thought about the matter (that&#8217;s one advantage of being married), and she told me no, she is Dr.\u00a0\u0130\u015flegen-Wojdyla and nothing else.<\/p>She&#8217;s right, and she&#8217;s the woman I love.<\/p>https:\/\/islegen-wojdyla.com\/<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week, my partner and I got married, and we both decided to take the same surname.I will now be known as\u00a0Antoine\u00a0\u0130\u015flegen-Wojdyla \u2013 edit your contact info!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-english","category-mood"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3344","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3344"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3344\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3377,"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3344\/revisions\/3377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3344"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3344"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/antoine.wojdyla.fr\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3344"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}